Why Family References for Nannies Should Be Standard
- Feb 19
- 2 min read
In the nanny world, there's one thing we never question: nannies must give references before being hired. And that's fair-- families deserve to know we're trustworthy, reliable, and capable.
But here's the thing no one talks about: nannies deserve the same courtesy.
Too many times, I (and many others in this industry) have taken a position with a family that looked great on paper... only to find out weeks later that they treated their previous nannies poorly, ignored contracts, or completely changed expectations after hiring.
If a nanny has to prove they're a good fit, a family should too.
That's exactly why family references for nannies should be a part of every professional hiring process.
Why Family References for Nannies Matter
It Protects Nannies From Toxic Jobs
Some families have a history of high turnover because of how they treat their caregivers. Talking to previous nanny can help us spot red flags before we're in too deep.
It Holds Everyone to the Same Standard
Mutual respect means both sides show transparency. If we're trusted with your children, we should be able to trust you as an employer.
It Improves Long-Term Matches
When both sides have clarity and trust from the start, the placement lasts longer-- which is better for the children.
How Tried and True is Changing the Game
At Tried and True - Nannies Sitters, we believe nanny placements should work both ways. That's why we're exploring a family reference check policy-- so nannies can have the same peace of mind families get.
We'll ask families if they're willing to provide a contact for a former nanny or household employee. That way, we can confirm:
Work environment
Communication style
Consistency in expectations
Respect for contracts and boundaries
A Better Standard for Everyone
Families want great nannies. Nannies want great families. Mutual transparency isn't just fair-- it's the foundation for safe, respectful, and lasting working relationships.
If you're a family who's ready to hire with honesty and openness, you'll attract the kind of nannies who will stay long-term and love your children like their own.
For Families:
Be the kind of employer nannies rave about. Apply to hire your nanny today.
For Nannies:
Join a team that puts your safety, respect, and happiness first. Apply to join us.
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